I have very fond memories of Mary and Graham, who for several years came to Winchester for Christmas to see Helen, Charles and the grandchildren. They stayed with me and we lingered over breakfast before they left me to travel the very short distance to spend the rest of the day with the family. After Graham died, Mary continued to come here for Christmas, and we enjoyed our outings to garden centres for lunch and Mary came with me to meet my friends on our regular Saturday morning coffee meeting in Winchester. Mary will be sadly missed by so many people.